Are You With Me Or Not?

from A Boy's Guide To My Galaxy by Wren Dove Lark

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I’m independent
I’m good on my own
But things get depressing
When I’m in my head too long
I say I’m ok it’s a lie

But you came along
Your energy makes me smile
We're the same wavelelength
I wanna be near you a while
You make me wanna try

When I’m clueless and nervous and feeling afraid
You may have to love me in a different way
I still want to be yours at the end of the day

So let’s cut through the bullshit

Are you with me or not? X4
‘Cause I’m gonna be fine without you
But I want you by my side if you want to

Are you with me or not? X4
I’ll do it myself if I have to
But I wanna do it with you

I want adventure
I wanna fly away
Burning the blueprint
It ain’t the only way
Let’s make a new path

I’ve witnessed love
And seen it go south
Turned into poison
Forced into her mouth
And I’m scared of being trapped

So when I’m clueless and nervous and feeling afraid
You may have to love me in a different way
I’ll give you my heart, but hear what I say

I don’t need you, but I want you so bad

Are you with me or not? X4
‘Cause I’m gonna be fine without you
But I want you by my side if you want to

Are you with me or not? X4
I’ll do it myself if I have to
But I wanna do it with you

A chance appeared before my eyes
Panic, passion, butterflies
So much here to analyze
But I'm done feeling paralyzed
I'm moving
So are you with me or not?

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from A Boy's Guide To My Galaxy, released May 2, 2019

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Wren Dove Lark Newark, New Jersey

I'm Wren (she/her). I write weird pop music for trans girls to cathartically cry to. If others get something from my music, that's awesome too. :)

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